01 - Pat the tofu completely dry with paper towels, then cut into ¾-inch cubes. Place tofu in a bowl and toss with cornstarch, salt, and black pepper until evenly coated on all sides.
02 - Heat 2 tablespoons neutral oil in a large non-stick skillet over medium-high heat until shimmering. Arrange tofu cubes in a single layer without overcrowding. Fry for 3-4 minutes per side, turning carefully, until golden brown and crispy on all sides. Transfer to a plate lined with paper towels to drain excess oil.
03 - In a small bowl, whisk together honey, soy sauce, rice vinegar, chili garlic sauce, and 2 teaspoons toasted sesame oil until smooth and well combined.
04 - Wipe the skillet clean if needed and add a splash more oil. Return to medium heat and sauté minced garlic and grated ginger for 30 seconds until fragrant, being careful not to burn. Pour in the prepared sauce mixture and bring to a gentle simmer.
05 - Return the crispy tofu to the skillet. Gently toss to coat evenly in the sauce. Cook for 2-3 minutes, stirring carefully, until the sauce thickens into a glossy glaze that clings to the tofu. Remove from heat immediately.
06 - In a large mixing bowl, combine shredded green cabbage, shredded red cabbage, julienned carrot, sliced spring onions, toasted sesame seeds, and cilantro if using. Toss gently to mix evenly.
07 - In a small bowl, whisk together rice vinegar, soy sauce, toasted sesame oil, honey, and salt until emulsified. Pour the dressing over the cabbage mixture and toss thoroughly to coat all vegetables evenly.
08 - Divide the dressed sesame cabbage crunch evenly among serving plates. Top with glazed chili honey tofu, arranging pieces attractively. Garnish with additional sesame seeds and fresh cilantro if desired. Serve immediately while tofu remains crispy.